Article published in Brisbane’s Westender http://westender.com.au/sacred-twin-flame/
Some of you might be familiar with the concept of twin flame. Some of you might believe you have a twin flame. And some of you might even be holding off on a relationship unless it is with your twin flame.
For those of you unfamiliar with the term, basically a twin flame is your other half, your ultimate beloved, you true love.
Anyway after much soul searching, I have discovered that putting on hold my life for my twin flame is ridiculous, and that actually it is not my destiny here on Earth. Yes, it is true that reuniting with him will be blissful, but what does one do if their soul contract means reunification in another dimension?
I decided to share my discovery on my facebook page Soul Sex. “It is true that we seek reunion with our true twin flame, but whilst on Earth we are here to exchange DNA with others. Enjoy the process, rather than pining for your beloved, with whom you will reconnect for eternity anyway,” I wrote.
Accompanied by a stunning photo, it began to be shared profusely on social media, and the initial comments were in total agreement. “If you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with,” said one man. “Non-exclusive is what Divine Source is, so we are too… that is our true nature,” added a woman.
But then the opposition began, “No thanks. Fidelity is fine. Patience is a virtue,” politely remarked one woman. “For yourselves. I’d rather stay separate for now,” said another woman. “She is right!!! I’d rather wait,” agreed a man. Maybe these two are twin flames, I wondered, but I had to ask myself will they find one another?
“How boring!!!..I would rather wait for my twin flame..,” said a lady. Boring? What could be more boring than waiting and longing for something that’s not in the now. “Not once you connect with your twin. Nothing else comes close,” added another.
“I don’t like being asked to sleep around. I’m not a whore,” said one woman. I tried reassuring her with, “This is not about infidelity or promiscuity. This is about honouring every step of your journey back to oneness.”
Some began to share their twin flame experiences after a man asked, “How do you know if someone is your twin flame?” “You will KNOW,” responded a woman. “Holding to limitation is not advisable. Perhaps there was a time when twin-flame union was everything, now we have a grand new opportunity – embrace it,” said one wise woman. “It is a timely reminder for me, after being lovesick all day. Pining. Tomorrow I will continue on my path,” said one brave man. “Still water grows stagnant after a while,” explained yet another man.
More comments came in: “well said!”, “These words are so true. Thank you for sharing the validation.” “Very True”, “yes TRUTH thank you…. it is such a wide truth in the perspective you offer to all of us.”
“I haven’t heard of twin flames before…hmm, new thought process to process ; ) Is it the same as a soulmate?,” asked a woman. “A twin flame is like your other half, a soul mate is a karmic partner,” I explained. “Thank you for the reply, guess I still have a lot of learning to do before I am ready,” she answered with a winking smile.
“Soul mates, soul lovers, soul fragments, twin flames… some souls split like cells over the eons… gets kinda complicated once you read some esoteric cosmology. Love the pic. The quote is the most retarded thing I think I’ve ever read. My God… Guess that woman with 10 kids and 10 partners is perfectly following her appointed divine purpose. Well done! *Pukes*,” said the grumpy man.
“You’ re right – by exchanging DNA a NEW individual is born!! What a beautiful way to think of it! I have one such exchange, not with a soul mate or twin flame and yes I pine. I needed this message- thank you !” “Exactly the truth Soul Sex, too many people forget what it means to be human. It’s about sharing love, not f*cking everything you see but choosing those special people that are not always a twin flame.”
“I must disagree with you Sidonie this time, I’m not here to exchange DNA,” said one woman. You might want to rethink this post,” offered another.
Well this has triggered quite a few people indeed. Funnily, there would have been a time when it would have triggered me too. Blessings to all, wherever you are on your journey. Ultimately there is no separation. We are all One.
Sidonie Bouchet, author of Alleluia, is the founder of the facebook page Soul Sex. She offers online spiritual mentoring sessions to help you reclaim fragmented aspects of yourself. You can contact her at www.soletosoulsex.com
As my facebook page Soul Sex grows beyond 200,000 so do my issues.
This morning I was greeted with another message from facebook headquarters, “If you or any of the other Page admins continue to post things that violate our Community Standards, Soul Sex may be unpublished. Please review your account and remove anything that violates our policies.”
This time the image is from Dimitry Laudin. Here is the offending post:
When I'm feeling lack, I need to reach deep within me to access that infinite light. Sidonie Bouchet © 2012
Facebook, I admire your endeavour to clean up your social media site, but could you please ensure the real pornography is removed, because soul-less sex really offends me.
- Sidonie Bouchet, December 1, 2013
I started this year with the wish, “May nudity return to purity in 2013″, and if my recent facebook ban is anything to go by, it seems that it is not yet the case.
I posted a beautiful photo of a sculpture of an indigenous woman by Jayne Skipper three days ago, and within hours received a message from facebook informing me it violated facebook policies, and that I am consequently blocked from posting for 30 days.
"BE, I thought. Because, I sought.
I knew that when I could actually be, I was at my ultimate."
Sidonie Bouchet - Alleluia
I was referred to Facebook’s Community Standards, and assume it belongs in the Nudity and Pornography section – “Facebook has a strict policy against the sharing of pornographic content and any explicitly sexual content where a minor is involved. We also impose limitations on the display of nudity. We aspire to respect people’s right to share content of personal importance, whether those are photos of a sculpture like Michelangelo’s David or family photos of a child breastfeeding.”
After reading the above, I have to admit I was unclear exactly what I had breached, especially the latter part regarding facebook’s aspiration.
I wondered whether it was a racial issue perhaps, because let’s face it an aboriginal woman wearing a shirt to go out gathering seems somewhat strange. I also asked myself whether it would have been pulled off if she had had pert youthful breasts, as I have regularly witnessed far more sexually explicit content and nudity of the perfect body on facebook.
Whatever the reason behind this ban, it is very apparent that as a society we still have a long way to go before we return to the purity of nudity in the Garden of Eden.
- Sidonie Bouchet, November 30, 2013
Join us on blogtalkradio
Sunday September 1, 2013 at 8pm (Australian EST)
Carmen Wyld interviews Sidonie Bouchet
about her newly released book Alleluia.
Dedicated to all those who have given up hope,
Alleluia is a spiritual journey from the darkness into the light.
Listen in to find out more…
“Awe. Sidonie Bouchet is a lighthouse !! Cheers !!”
“Thank you so so much for this video. Lovely awesome description of real deep healing beyond surviving what we seem to be existing surrounded by in this perverse world.”
“Such wonderful and truly meaningful points. Thank you for this!”
“This was great! Thank you for sharing…Will you ever do an interview about connecting with your Twin Soul? Love and Blessings <3″
(including a sample spiritual mentoring session):
Dr Luv interview excellent! Very clear about what it is you do, where you have come from and where you are headed – I loved the comment you made about going deep into your darkness!
I now have an even better understanding of what you do and what you are capable of and its so very exciting! The interactive reflexology just superb! What a wonderful activity – sharing between people!
I felt that the skype session you did with him was incredible, the tone in his voice – the vulnerability he was willing to share with the listeners amazing – you handled the whole situation in such a short time beautifully!
I am so blown away by what you are being – its awesome.
~ Amanda Hogg, Qld, Australia
In 2000 she was shown that her role here on planet Earth was that of a lightworker. More recently, the Universe spoke to her loudly about the need for lightworking in sexuality. She was told that we are being misguided about its role. Yes, it is meant for procreation, but more importantly sex is designed to merge us with All That Is. It is then that she created Soul Sex.
Initially, a compilation of tantric posts, Soul Sex became a page for those seeking to merge in Oneness, with themselves, their lover’s and ultimately with the Universe. Sidonie discovered that the more in alignment we are with our soul, the more sacred our sexual connections become.
Her goal is to speak about soul sex, until it replaces the emptiness of pornography. She believes that ultimately we all seek complete merging, but that it is our woundedness, our belief in separation, that is stopping us from it becoming a reality.
As we have the courage to face our stuff and in doing so, love ourselves back to our true essence, we will be able to once more be conscious, open-hearted and totally present in our lovemaking, thereby experiencing orgasmic activation in every cell of our being. This will not only heal us, but heal the world.
THE NEW DAWN & THE ONENESS OF ALL
SUMMER SOLSTICE MEDITATION ~ DECEMBER 22, 2012
Crystal Waters, Queensland, Australia ~ Sidonie Bouchet © 2012
As one world ends, another commences.
You have nothing to fear, life is everlasting.
We have moved into what the Mayans call the New Sun, a time of hope and transformation.
This is a time to come together in community, to treat one other with honesty and fairness. To really feel and know in every cell of our body, that what we do to one another, we do to ourselves. This also means that as we heal ourselves, we heal others, and in turn we heal the world.
This is also the time of seeing the light within ourselves, seeing the light within each other, so that we can truly become a planet of Light. And as the transformation within us occurs, we will experience a shift in the collective psyche, making way for a new planetary consciousness.
The process is simple really – the more you become yourself, reclaiming all lost parts of the self, the more you will expand into wholeness. This is the time of collective evolution, complete wholeness, the return back to Oneness.
So, as we wake up and remember who we truly are, let our awareness expand beyond the past pains and limitations we have experienced, so that we can step into multi-dimensional reality, truly understanding what it means to be cosmic co-creators.
The new world will be what you believe it to be. Consider what you truly desire as we move into the age of infinite possibilities. Your thoughts will create what you manifest more and more quickly.
As we commence the first day of the New World, harmony will prevail, and any disharmony will simply be a sign that wounds are needing to be healed. Be gentle with one another – we have all suffered pain and persecution and we all seek love, and most importantly we are all One.
This is not a time of being all the same, for it is our diversity which is to be celebrated. Yes indeed, duality is dissolving as we value everything and let go of the need to be right or the need to prove our point.
We are entering a time of great light, where life becomes purely enjoyable. Where we find ourselves expanding gloriously into the Oneness of All That Is. And as we become grateful for the glimpses of light, they will explode into the Lightness of Being, where joy and love is a natural part of everyday life. Focus on what you want, face your shadows, and all that will remain is the truth of the Light.
Let go of anything that defines you, so you can become an integrated light body in physical form, as intended for these times.
As you truly understand and know yourself, it will extend to others. And the more you comprehend the reason behind the way you are in the world, the more you will be able to understand why others are the way they are, and what life is really all about.
We have left the reality of the timeline, and moved into the age of infinite possibilities, where the physical loses its hold on us and the grip of density dissolves, allowing us to move into multi-dimensionality.
In this new world, freedom is the norm, and we return to the zero point. A place where you just are. Nothing more, nothing less, just your beautiful self.
Values are changing now, universal brotherhood/sisterhood is paramount. This is the time of Oneness, this is the time of Unity. And all that we are required to do is to ensure that we have right relationship with ourself, with one another, with the Earth, with our Cosmos… with every life form…with All That Is.
We have just walked out of the world of disillusionment, lack and lies, and it is safe now to replace our pain with grace, and focus on the reason we are here on Earth, our mission, our soul purpose.
Life is safe now, nourishing and nurturing. Peace and liberation will prevail during these amazing times. So be at peace and know that All is Well.
As we walk into this new world, there is no need to prove yourself. You are enough just as you are. Allow your glorious true self to shine. Radiate your inner light. You are the new dawn. Step into the Golden Age, for the time is now.
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